remove last usages of min/compile/target SdkVersion, align sourceCompatibility across repo and update android version documentation (#164198)

Related to #149836
- Remove last usages of minSdkVersion/compileSdkVersion/targetSdkVersion
in favor of minSdk/compileSdk/targetSdk. That do not also use
`flutter.minSdkVersion` etc. (that will happen in another pass)
- Update the files that used "SdkVersion" to use equals for setting new
values. [Not yet landed documentation
change](https://github.com/flutter/flutter/pull/164195/files#diff-ee6ec18be8d752e2696c8ccc8bec2f202dfc29a43b3b4f9d8041aa6bc3e852a1)
- align sourceCompatibility and targetCompatibility across repo to use
JavaVersion.* and update android version documentation.

This pr updates `kotlinOptions jvmTarget` documentation but does not fix
all existing usages.

This pr is expected to cause no behavioral changes. 
This pr makes logical sense after
https://github.com/flutter/flutter/pull/164195 but can be landed in any
order.

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docs/contributing/Android-API-And-Related-Versions.md

@@ -107,7 +107,7 @@ Gradle versions are the least likley to break across minor version updates.
 distributionUrl=https\://services.gradle.org/distributions/gradle-8.12.1-bin.zip
 ```
 
-### kotlin
+### Kotlin
 
 Changing kotlin versions is most likley to have an issue with another dependency and not the code under test.
 
@@ -120,3 +120,46 @@ ext.kotlin_version = "1.7.10"
 ...
 classpath "org.jetbrains.kotlin:kotlin-gradle-plugin:$kotlin_version"
 ```
+
+### compileOptions and kotlinOptions
+
+- sourceCompatibility must use JavaVersion.*
+- targetCompatibility must use JavaVersion.*
+- kotlinOptions jvmTarget should match the versions used by compileOptions or there should be a comment explaining why.
+- jvmTarget should use JavaVersion.<SOMEVERSION>.toString() or there should be a comment explaining why.
+
+```
+// Ok
+compileOptions {
+    sourceCompatibility = JavaVersion.VERSION_11
+    targetCompatibility = JavaVersion.VERSION_11
+}
+
+kotlinOptions {
+    jvmTarget = JavaVersion.VERSION_11.toString()
+}
+```
+
+```
+// Not ok
+compileOptions {
+    sourceCompatibility = JavaVersion.VERSION_17
+    targetCompatibility = JavaVersion.VERSION_17
+}
+
+kotlinOptions {
+    jvmTarget = "17"
+}
+```
+
+```
+// Not ok
+compileOptions {
+    sourceCompatibility = JavaVersion.VERSION_11
+    targetCompatibility = JavaVersion.VERSION_11
+}
+
+kotlinOptions {
+    jvmTarget = JavaVersion.VERSION_17.toString()
+}
+```